Once again, my life has not turned out like a romantic comedy. I always thought my mind would be racing with questions and doubts before I got married because that’s what always happens to Kate Hudson in the movies, but I just feel calm. I’m making one of the biggest decisions of my life and the biggest thing I’m worried about is my hair not going flat during the wedding. I really thought I would be doubting the person I was going to marry and scared about spending the rest of my life with one person.

I think I’ve been watching some weird romantic comedies.

It’s probably just blind ignorance, but I’m not worried. When I met Eric, it really felt like I didn’t have a choice in the matter whether or not I would marry him. Eric was my husband right from the start and that was that. Honestly, Eric is one of the only things I’ve ever been completely sure about.

That and the fact that beans and cheese are a perfect side for any meal.